I have been thinking a lot lately about what it truly means to be called a princess. What does the world “princess” mean in the present compared to what it stood for years ago? Many, many moons before we were born.
I have noticed that so many like to call their little girls “princesses”. I agree that this is quite the adorable nickname when they are zero to three; it’s not quite as cute when they are twenty. I found the urban dictionaries definition of the word princess quite fitting for today’s little darlings. Princess A girl that has been pampered sheltered and spoiled her whole life to the extent that she has no friggin idea about the real world. Isn’t this the truth? Come on, think about it. It is almost certain that you know at least two self proclaimed “princesses” and if you are very honest with yourself, you just might know a few more.
In medieval times, to be called a princess meant that you were told who to marry and at a very young age, sometimes as young as seven or eight years old. You were betrothed not to somebody you were in love with, that wasn’t of any concern. You were married off in order to form alliances with another country. The main role of the princess in this era was to bare an heir to carry on a particular family name. Hopefully a future King. The princesses were taught needlework, languages, hunting and entertaining. They were expected to obey and respect all male members of their family (failure to do so was a crime against religion and there were dire consequences) and to have impeccable manners at all times. Princesses of this time were slaves to the men around them and only in charge of governing servants. Being a princess in these days was not glamorous.
More recent princesses such as Kate Middleton do not have life as harsh as the princesses of olden days, but they still have duties to perform. In an article that I was reading she (Kate) will have to quit her job, (put aside her interest as a web designer and photographer for her family’s business) and resume duties to include opening ceremonies and charity appearances. Surely her job is more tolerable than her sisters from previous centuries. I am sure they would have gladly exchanged places with her.
There is also another princess. She is a child of God, a daughter of THE King. She also has responsibilities and duties. She is also a servant, gladly serving the Most High, in his courts. She loves and respects every person who is placed in her care, even foreigners passing through. She has the love of her Father radiating from her and it shows in her actions. The King dotes on her, he calls her His beloved. She sings praises in his courtyards, cheerily going on about her day’s full work knowing this brings Him great joy. Words of wisdom and encouragement purposely fall from her tongue. He set her aside for Himself, showed her mercy and grace and carefully placed a crown of precious jewels upon her head.
Do you fit the description of the urban dictionaries definition of a princess? Are you an actual princess in this modern day world, like Kate Middleton?.. Or do you fit God’s description of one of his daughters?